Finding Focus

Fliss Gray

Supporting and empowering you
to find calm and clarity
in mind and body so you can focus on what matters most.

Fliss Grey offers Global Life Coaching Sessions

Welcome to Finding Focus.

Hi and welcome to Finding Focus — a space for you. 

If your attention is often pulled outward, focused on everyone and everything else, and there’s a sense something needs to shift — but you’re not quite sure where to begin — you’re in the right place.

At Finding Focus, I create a safe and supportive space for awareness and insight — helping you slow down, clear and calm your mind and body, and focus on what matters most to you.

Through breathwork, coaching, and real conversation, we explore your thinking, beliefs, and emotions — learning how to move through what you feel, rather than getting stuck in it.

What I offer.

A Personalised Approach

This work is about coming home to yourself — in a way that’s both grounded and deeply transformative.In a world that pulls us outward, it’s easy to become disconnected from your body, your clarity, and what actually matters.

Together, we create space to slow things down, clear mental clutter, and reconnect with a steadier, more aligned way of being.

You might be navigating a career shift, a relationship challenge, a personal transition, or simply feeling stuck in patterns that no longer serve you. You may be seeking clarity, calm, confidence, or a stronger sense of direction.My approach blends coaching, somatic release breathwork, mind-body tools, neuroscience, Energy Psychology (EFT), and authentic relating.

It’s both practical and experiential — supporting you to not only understand what’s happening for you, but to shift how you respond to it.This is where real change happens.Each session is personalised and responsive to you. I take the time to listen deeply and meet you where you’re at — whether you need space to explore, tools to support you, or structure to move forward.
You can work with me through individual sessions, tailored coaching packages, breathwork, or leadership development through the i4 Neuroleader™ program.

However we work together, the intention is the same: to help you build awareness, move through what’s holding you back, and create meaningful, sustainable change.
Sessions are available in person or online.If this resonates, let’s start with an intro call — I’d love to connect.

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Shared Space

I offer group experiences that bring people back into connection — with themselves and with each other.
These may take the form of interactive sessions, speaking engagements, or somatic release breathwork.

Each experience is designed to support nervous system regulation, build self-awareness, and create space to move through stress, patterns, and emotion.

Because real change doesn’t happen in isolation, these spaces invite shared learning, honest conversation, and a deeper sense of connection — reminding us we’re not alone in what we experience.

If this resonates, I’d love to connect.

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We Learn
We Practice
We Become

This mantra reflects my personal journey and the heart of my work. It’s about cultivating self-awareness, expanding our skills, and gaining a clearer sense of who we are. Integrating these insights into daily life with intention, we create simple habits aligned with our values, moving us in the direction we desire.

Life's a continuum, and if we go off course—we gently come back into our lane.

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The Finding Focus Mind Map.

Your journey to living with clarity, purpose, and in alignment with what truly matters starts here.........
Fliss Grey a Life Coach in Christchurch uses this Mind Map

About.

Fliss Grey focuses on holistic health coaching, using positive psychology and self empowerment.

I'm Felicity—Fliss for short

I live in Ōtautahi Christchurch with my family. We moved here after many years living and working overseas. Our city has been beautifully rebuilt and feels like an easy place to live, with the mountains and sea right on our doorstep. There’s a growing wellness community here, and I feel really grateful to be part of it.

The work I do now is shaped by both my life experience and the tools and practices I’ve trained in.

Earlier in my career, I worked in people-centred recruitment and consulting roles — listening, questioning, and understanding. I’ve always had a curious mind and a genuine interest in people’s stories and backgrounds. Over time, I’ve honed the skill of deep listening and come to really understand its value in meaningful conversation.

I love asking questions that spark new insights and fresh perspectives — those aha moments where something shifts.

I’ve learned that real change begins with awareness — of our thoughts, our feelings, and how we react and respond. I believe the language we use holds incredible power, whether it’s in our self-talk or in how we communicate with others.

The words we choose can either reinforce old patterns or open the door to new possibilities. By becoming more curious about our language, we can start to shift how we experience life and create meaningful change.

I aim to provide a welcoming, safe, and supportive space where you can truly be yourself — where our relationship can develop, and where you can do your best thinking.

I’ll continue to share more of my story and why I care so deeply about this work soon. For now, I’d love to hear your story and what’s brought you here.
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The Knowledge that shapes
my work

  • i4™ Neuroleader Methodology - Certified Practitioner
  • Holistic Life Coach - Diploma
  • Certified  Mind-Body Practitioner
  • Neurobiology of Coaching,
    Well-Being and Brain Friendly Practices - Diploma
  • Energy Psychology - EFT Practitioner
  • Neuro Somatic Mindfulness™
    (Foundations Course)
  • Somatic Release Breathwork Facilitator

Feedback and Reflections

Insights from those I've worked with
"Spending an hour with Fliss Gray was a delight. It spilled over with warmth, genuine interest and care and the vitality of a woman on a mission and deeply committed to what she is doing.

Fliss excitedly shared her latest explorations in her field of interest and how she applies this with clients and more importantly how she self-leads.

I am grateful for a great learning opportunity and a true sharing connection. I highly recommend touching base with Fliss Gray."
 Life Coaching near Christchurch NZ
Nikki
"SHE MENTORS" - Mentor Session
"Felicity guided me through some of the most challenging times in my life. Her holistic approach truly made me feel seen as a “whole” person. In our conversations, I always felt heard and understood. She supported me in my endeavors and attempted to help me manage the obstacles that came with them.

She’s truly nonjudgmental, which was refreshing and empowering. What I liked was she never provided the direct answers to me but gently guided me inward, where the answer truly resided.Thanks to her support, I learned to be kinder to myself, which has helped ease my negative thoughts that used to add to my stress. After our sessions, I always felt a renewed sense of control and confidence that I was moving in a direction that truly aligned with who I wanted to be and what I wanted to achieve.

One of her most valuable insights has been this: while we can prepare and plan, our success ultimately depends on our ability to adapt. Felicity has taught me that it’s not only okay to hold onto my dreams but that I should hold them with enough gentleness to let them breathe and grow with me."
 Life Coaching near Christchurch NZ
Natasha
Finding Focus
"Felicity has been a great support during a rough patch in my life and taught me how to stay present and calm under stress at work and in life. I found the tools and sessions very uplifting and provided me with space to connect to myself and make decisions that add value to my life."
 Life Coaching near Christchurch NZ
Jack
Finding Focus
"I am grateful for the opportunity to work with Felicity on my i4 Neuro Leadership assessment and follow-up sessions through 2023.

Establishing strong trust and a safe environment to talk through my results and next steps was really important to me - Felicity provided this comfort through her calm, kind and curious approach to my results."
 Life Coaching near Christchurch NZ
Anne
i4 Neuroleader - Finding Focus
"Felicity is a perceptive, and wise coach and  eft tapping guide. She has masterful skills of listening and inquiry, and then translating it into insight. After listening with compassionate ears to my struggles, she made me realize that it was connected to childhood triggers and trauma, and no wonder it impacted me so much.

Felicity lead me through a powerful tapping sequence, and I could feel my body release the tension. I felt lighter almost immediately. Fliss’s guidance and her experience with EFT tapping is a profound healing experience.

I highly recommend Fliss!!  She’s brilliant!”
 Life Coaching near Christchurch NZ
Trace
Finding Focus
"Thank you Fliss, I managed to pass my exam! It was a very different experience from my previous exams, employing all the techniques I have learned to ground myself. I slept before both exams and went in nervous but calm and accepting.

Thank you so much for your role in helping me and I feel priveliged to have new understanding of myself and how to manage stress that I believe I will be putting into practice in many areas of work and life moving forwards ”
 Life Coaching near Christchurch NZ
Katy
Finding Focus

Community and Collaboration

O-studio logo
I first found O-Studio at a time when my usual fitness routine had become really challenging due to osteoarthritis. It was a genuine turning point — the mental and physical benefits, from reduced joint inflammation to improved mobility, were incredible. I’m grateful for the connection I’ve had with O-Studio — including a period where I offered Finding Focus coaching within the studio — and for the role it has played in my own journey. It’s a beautiful space to support both body and mind,
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My collaboration with the incredible Teresa Mitrovic at Oro Collective aligns deeply with my core value of connection. Teresa has been one of my earliest supporters since I transitioned from corporate work, offering me invaluable support and space within her business as I studied and prepared to bring Finding Focus to life. Our partnership reflects a shared commitment to fostering human connection and emotional intelligence, creating environments where collaboration and growth flourish.

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